My Body Belongs to Me-book review

The book, My Body Belongs to Me, by Jill Starishevsky is a great read for all parents of young/school-age children. Children need to know that they are in charge of their bodies and that they are not to be touched in the wrong way. The book tells it's story in a rhyming style that is easy for young kids to follow. We always tell our children that parents and doctors are the only people allowed to discuss or see beneath our wardrobe, let alone touch. If anyone else is to attempt or do it, a trusting adult like a parent or teacher should be alerted immediately. As a former teacher of Kindergarten and first grade, and a mom of 3 under the age of 10, this is a must-read!

The story is a simple scenario involving a gender neutral child who is inappropriately touched by an uncle’s friend. The powerful message really comes through when the youngster tells on the offender and the parents praise the child’s bravery. The last page shows a proud, smiling child doing a "strong arm" pose. The text assures them that it wasn't their fault and by speaking out the child will continue to grow big and strong. It is a compelling and uplifting message.

Using her decade of experience, Ms. Starishevsky has crafted a book that speaks to children - it makes them aware that when it comes to their bodies, there are boundaries. It assures them that it’s OK to tell a parent or teacher if someone touches their “private parts.”

Geared toward children ages 3-10, parents and educators will find it a vital tool to initiate a lifesaving dialogue.

Jill Starishevsky is an Assistant District Attorney in New York City, where she has prosecuted hundreds of sex offenders and dedicated her career to seeking justice for victims of child abuse and sex crimes. Outside the courtroom, Jill's fondness for writing led her to create thepoemlady.com, where she pens personalized pieces. Her mission to protect children, along with her penchant for poetry, inspired My Body Belongs to Me. A mother of two, Jill is also founder of HowsMyNanny.com, a service that enables parents to purchase a license plate for their child's stroller so the public can report positive or negative nanny observations.

Buy "My Body Belongs to Me" for $14.95.